who choose the husband?

[MANH NGUYEN]

OMG!
I think all of u should sit down together and talk like mans about this matter instead of avoid--- it. I know it's really hard to make her parent change their mind but it's the only best thing u can do at this moment

Ryu,
They don't look right, probably need to be changed or corrected!!!

[Ryu]

Corrected!
Thx u for ur reminder

[waguz]

Yea, its really strange. They´ve been living here for 20 years already and he thinks in this way.... from 18th century. Also, she is 24, she should know what to do.

[dethuong_x0x]

She has the right to love and to choose her husband. If her dad doesnt care for her happiness in marriage. She doesnt need to think what her dad gonna do, even if he commits a suicide, and I think her dad wont do it.

[Phong Lan]

Hi Waguz, I feel sorry to your and your girlfriend's problems. I've heard many stories like yours. There are some parents like that in Vietnam too. The truth is that the parents worry too much about the girl's future and don't want her to "spoil" their "Vietnamese origin". You can wait until her father cools his head down. In mean time, try to learn about Vietnamese tradition and act if you're a real Viet guy when meet her dad again. Good luck to you.

[LtDra]

It seems everyone've tried to put the old dad to the death corner. What a pity on him.
Ears can hear the voices but eyes will catch the truth.

[dethuong_x0x]

It seems everyone've tried to put the old dad to the death corner. What a pity on him.
Ears can hear the voices but eyes will catch the truth.

DOes that have the similar meaning as "trăm nghe ko bằng một thấy"?

[LtDra]

DOes that have the similar meaning as "trăm nghe ko bằng một thấy"?

Giống như câu "Đừng tin những gì "tụi nó" nói,hãy thấy những gì "tụi nó" làm"

[dethuong_x0x]

Giống như câu "Đừng tin những gì "tụi nó" nói,hãy thấy những gì "tụi nó" làm"

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[LtDra]

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