China has a population of 1.5 billion. We divide it by 80, supposing life span is 80 for one person, to get the number of people at your age. And then we divide it by 2 to get the number of men.
It is 9 million. Many of them are good, kind men.
That number is half a million in Vietnam.
If he happened to read your words, he must feel the pain. Chinese girls believe in retaliation? right?
It is hard to accept our mistakes or misunderstanding. Meanwhile, expectations have a percentage of 50/50 wrong or right. But if we do accept we learn something else, even more valuable than what we thought we lost.
Vietnamese girls have a saying:
"I thought the well was so deep
So I tied a longer rope for the bucket
The well turned out to be shallow
I felt pity all my life for the wasteful part of the rope."
Cherio,
Thank you for your wise words, Tanyenbai, I'll remember that!
But it seems the well I wished to drink form was worse than just SHALLOW, in fact, I've come to the conclusion that the well was HOLLOW...
Nothing to feel much pity about
You've helped me enormously with your advice, cảm ơn rất nhiềuand all the best to you!
aww ... do you know the saying " all men are wolf", especialy vietnamese guys? Caz I'm a vietnamese girl, I've got a better understanding about them. Vietnamese guys [almost all of them] always wear a mask of generous, kind, and gallant when they're with girls. It's sort of environmental and natural for boys to be like that, you know.
But don't let that mask trick you. Do not fall for that in particularly!
In addition, guys are greedy. If you easily fall for them, they will get bored of you soon and throw you away like trash. Should make it harder for them, like the cat and the mouse, so that they will treasure you becaz they would know your value.
Be confident, girl! there are many vietnamese songs about girls mistreat boys much more than songs about girls tell about boy cheat on them. got that?
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Last edited by LtDra; 08-10-2009 at 11:14 PM. Reason: Thank you onedaylove for the E correction.
Thất bại lớn nhất của đời người là tự đại
Đáng thương nhất của đời người là tự ti.
Tự đại + Tự ti = thất bại đáng thương nhất
Thanks wild4ever! You're a very clever girl! I hope all your dreams come true, and very soon, too!
I really like wild4ever's frankness and directness, LtDra, and I think her attitude is very good. But, of course, as a naive girl, I like your definition of what a heart is meant for, even more!!
Anyway, philosophically speaking, it seems the outcome of one's personal expectations is only a matter of prudent or foolish choice of the object of our love. Give your heart to the wrong person and you end up heartbroken. But after you've picked up the pieces, you realize that you may have lost one battle, but in fact, you've WON THE WAR!!![]()