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    Hi all,

    I would like to know oponions and know something about vietnamese customs. I have I question about relations between vietnamese girls and foreign guys. Are vietnamese girls free to choose who will she date? Or does it depend at here parents? Are there any strict traditions about this multiculture relations?

    Thanx for any answer.

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    Today Vietnamese people are quite open on multiculture relations. In general, girls can choose to date the guys she wants. However, there are still some DOs and Don'ts for this kind of relationship. You may try one and find out.

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    Can you give some examples of dos and donts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wblostatsea13 View Post
    Can you give some examples of dos and donts?
    I can give you one of most important for the 14 yrs old boy/girl like you on both DOs & DON'Ts here

    Don't ever having love or sex with other girl or boy
    Do focus on your studies at school and be a good boy/girl at home.
    Thất bại lớn nhất của đời người là tự đại
    Đáng thương nhất của đời người là tự ti.
    Tự đại + Tự ti = thất bại đáng thương nhất

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    Quote Originally Posted by LtDra View Post
    I can give you one of most important for the 14 yrs old boy/girl like you on both DOs & DON'Ts here

    Don't ever having love or sex with other girl or boy
    Do focus on your studies at school and be a good boy/girl at home.
    Good points LtDra!!!

    And also:

    - Don't kiss her/him when you are in publish places and in front of his/her friends and family.
    - Don't assume that she/he does not love/believe you if she/he refuses having premarital sex with you.
    - Do learn and try to talk to her/him in his/her language, which can make your lover happy the most.
    - Do learn what to do and say when u visist her/his family
    - Be humorous and charming!!!
    Last edited by Phong Lan; 04-21-2009 at 05:19 PM.

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    Do be polite to the elders eventhough you despise them..hehehe
    Do eat whatever food is served up..atleast have a taste
    Do have their daughters home by 10-11pm..never after midnight
    Do go and find the parents to say good bye when it is time to go
    Do remember that education is important and that the parents won't be too happy if you disrupt their kids' chance of success..

    Don't stay in the house with the girl if she is the only person in the house

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    I'd go with dewdrops' suggestions. They're right on! lol
    "I do not wish a foreign army to spill the blood of my people...The time has come to put an end to the fratricidal war and to recover at last peace and accord." ---Bảo Đại

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    Spyglass25...they might be a bit ancient..lol..

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    Quote Originally Posted by wblostatsea13 View Post
    Can you give some examples of dos and donts?
    Dos is the abbreviations of things that you should/ought to do or you are permitted to do

    Don't is the abbreviation of things that are taboo !

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    finally I see some replays:-) thank you for all answers. Me and me girlfriend are not 15 y. old long time already, however I gues most of the dos and donts apply anyway, dont they?

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