Dear wife,
I am very sorry that because of my behaviours that let you thought of the hardships you been through in childhood. I realised my mistakes, I am very selfish and have pessimistic thoughts, and I like to talk without thinking.
I know that you are stubborn and want independent. You don't want anyone to worry about you, but I am your Husband, I had to worry anythings you do.
Lastly, being your Husband, I would like to gurantee that I won't let you suffer anymore (emotionally). For your worry, I would like you to share with me as I would like to share any burdens together with you.
Please give me one more chance to prove to you, my real love and care towards you and your family.
Thanks