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    Hi, i would like to know your opinion on following issue.

    I´ve been dating a Vietnamese girls for 6 months already, we both live in Czech republic. Iam Czech and she lives here since her childhood, now she´s 24.
    She didnt tell her parents that we have a relationship and she told me she wanted to wait till we are together at least half a year. It passed now and talked to her parents. Unfortunately, what happen is that her father denied her as his daughter, kicked her out of the house and told her, if she gonna marry me he will commit a suicide. I could not believe this! I know that some Vietnamese parents may be strict or traditional but this too much in my opinion.

    please share with me your opinion on this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by waguz View Post
    Hi, i would like to know your opinion on following issue.

    I´ve been dating a Vietnamese girls for 6 months already, we both live in Czech republic. Iam Czech and she lives here since her childhood, now she´s 24.
    She didnt tell her parents that we have a relationship and she told me she wanted to wait till we are together at least half a year. It passed now and talked to her parents. Unfortunately, what happen is that her father denied her as his daughter, kicked her out of the house and told her, if she gonna marry me he will commit a suicide. I could not believe this! I know that some Vietnamese parents may be strict or traditional but this too much in my opinion.

    please share with me your opinion on this.

    W
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    I think the first step now is you have to meet her father privately and talk straightforward as 2 men with each other... and try to make faith from him

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    Quote Originally Posted by waguz View Post
    Hi, i would like to know your opinion on following issue.

    I´ve been dating a Vietnamese girls for 6 months already, we both live in Czech republic. Iam Czech and she lives here since her childhood, now she´s 24.
    She didnt tell her parents that we have a relationship and she told me she wanted to wait till we are together at least half a year. It passed now and talked to her parents. Unfortunately, what happen is that her father denied her as his daughter, kicked her out of the house and told her, if she gonna marry me he will commit a suicide. I could not believe this! I know that some Vietnamese parents may be strict or traditional but this too much in my opinion.

    please share with me your opinion on this.

    W
    OMG!
    I think all of u should sit down together and talk like men about this matter instead of avoiding it. I know it's really hard to make her parent change their mind but it's the only best thing u can do at this moment
    Last edited by Ryu; 08-29-2009 at 03:47 PM. Reason: Thx bac MANH
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    OMG!
    I think all of u should sit down together and talk like mans about this matter instead of avoid--- it. I know it's really hard to make her parent change their mind but it's the only best thing u can do at this moment
    Ryu,
    They don't look right, probably need to be changed or corrected!!!
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    This tactic was used by many vietnamese parents in the bad old days. He only tried to steer his daughter from you by threatening to take his own life. If he does it for real, that's good! One less stupid man in this world. I feel it for you man!

    Cheers
    Last edited by camtieu; 08-30-2009 at 12:59 PM.

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    I dont know what to say, man! Her father should go back to the day that people used to live in the cave.
    Nhất tự vi sư , bán tự vi sư
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    Anyone who teaches me one word - even half a word - is still my teacher.
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    Even he who teaches me the smallest bit can still be called my teacher

    Please correct my grammar as you see fit. Much appreciated!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dethuong_x0x View Post
    I dont know what to say, man! Her father should go back to the day that people used to live in the cave.
    lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by dethuong_x0x View Post
    I dont know what to say, man! Her father should go back to the day that people used to live in the cave.
    I dont know what to say, man! Her father should go back to the days when people used to live in caves

    Cheers

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    Quote Originally Posted by camtieu View Post
    I dont know what to say, man! Her father should go back to the days when people used to live in caves

    Cheers
    YEA! Thank you so much!
    Last edited by dethuong_x0x; 08-29-2009 at 11:37 AM.
    Nhất tự vi sư , bán tự vi sư
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    1st Version:
    Anyone who teaches me one word - even half a word - is still my teacher.
    2nd Version:
    Even he who teaches me the smallest bit can still be called my teacher

    Please correct my grammar as you see fit. Much appreciated!

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